Gracelyn turns 2!

As of Sunday the 16th of October we have a 2 year old! Gracelyn Paige is so.much.fun! She is a chatterbox and loves to tell long stories but we usually just understand about 1 word here and there. She can say single words: her manners, animal sounds and names, mainly close family, oh and "amen!" Double words she says are "thank you" "love you." and "read me!"

In case I haven't mentioned it before, Gracelyn loves to read. She burnt us out on several of the books we owned so we asked for new books for her birthday to switch out and we can donate those "repeaters." It's one book right after another, especially before bed in order to stall.

With all of her "funess" we do have the 2 year old fits and drama. Gracie can "no" very well.very well. She puts herself in timeout before we have a chance to most of the time,

her first slush, on her birthday.

a little "Brown Bear, Brown Bear What do you see" before bed. Her favorite book!

the night before she turned 2 I was sad about it and she was dressed as SuperWhy and sitting in a box acting like she was flying...

Gracelyn's 2 year well-check was yesterday and in her pediatrician's words, "she is happy, healthy and perfect." I concur. She weighs 31lb,12ozs and is 36" tall. She's in the 95th% for both!

In her birthday nighttime prayer we thanked God for Gracelyn and her first 2 years and asked for a blessed year in the 2's. Gracie replied loudly "UH HUH AMEN!" Amen!

Gracelyn's Evaluation

Gracelyn was evaluated Thursday, August 18 for possible treatment/therapy. She was tested on many areas: adaptive, personal-social, communication, motor, cognitive and language. It took about an hour and she was totally exhausted towards the end. The therapist had all sorts of activities that Gracelyn was asked to do and she was able to do and enjoyed many of them. G was asked to match smaller blocks to the larger version, also match the blocks of the same colors, and with 3 objects in front of her, a shoe, ball and utensil, Gracelyn was asked which she put on her foot, played with, ate with. The lady gave G a crayon and asked her to draw in linear and also in circular motions. Looking at a picture book Gracelyn was to tell her what the objects were and the lady put a cheerio in a slender jar to see if G could retrieve it. Lots of different games in the hour and lots of questions for mom about what all Gracelyn does.
At the end of the hour I was told that Gracelyn does not qualify for the treatment, which is great! She has to be lacking by 25% in 2 areas or 50% in 1. She is "normal" for her 22 month range and even above her age range in some areas. The therapist said G is actually above the 22 month range for communication. While it's great that she does well with communication, it's definitely not by talking. She signs, points, takes us by the hand to show us, or just repeats "baba" "gaga" "mama" over and over and over. The issue is that she doesn't articulate her words. Because Gracelyn attempts to say words (and isn't mute like most younger siblings are when the older siblings speak for them) the therapist believes she knows them and has them but cannot say them, whether it's from lack of mouth muscles stemming from botulism or from her frequent ear infections, leading up to tubes back in the Spring.
Either way Gracelyn needs help and that is what we will do. The therapist gave me lots of tips to work with Gracelyn at home. We have begun them and we think G is really responding. The pediatrician had told me to stop responding to Gracelyn's signing. Gayle, the therapist was NOT happy about that. She said if that is how G is communicating and I'm ignoring her then she will shut down completely. not good. So encourage signing still, even make up more signs for everything. When Gracelyn signs, repeat that word 5-10 times. Also give her lots of milkshakes to drink with a straw and even put a straw in pudding, blow bubbles, give her chewy foods and encourage chewing on specific objects such as a toothbrush (in her chair, not running around with it.) All of this will work mouth muscles.
So our household pretty much sounds like birds, with Ryan and I repeating single words and now even the boys "help." Gracelyn is definitely talking more and can say "me" with the long "e" sound. That is great for her because it's been sort of an "a" sound like "may".

botubaby update

With almost a year and a half since Gracelyn was hospitalized with C-Botulism, I look at her and am amazed at how she can run, roll around, lift her arms and legs, touch her face, pick up objects, eat and drink on her own, ALL things that due to the paralysis of nerves, she couldn't do a year ago. Now she can and she does them well.
We saw her physical therapist, Mr. Derrick, a month ago, for the first time since she was discharged from PT a year ago, and he was shocked at how well she was doing. He was using technical physical terms as he watched her step, step up, walk backwards, duck under a railing, balance on a wobbly apparatus, but then looked at me and said "she's physically normal, where a toddler her age should be!" YAY!! I knew it because I could see it and with 3 older kids, I knew she was where they were physically at her age but it was great to hear it from a pro. I mentioned to him that she wasn't talking and he said to me that it'll come.
Well last Thursday after looking at a Mickey Mouse book with a family member and Gracelyn not being able to tell who the characters were, the person became frustrated and asked if I thought there was a problem with G. My kids not knowing cartoon characters doesn't set off alarm bells and whistles to me. This person has been and was comparing Gracelyn to her cousin who is 7 months older and is the first child while G is the fourth. I asked if she remembered that Gracelyn was paralyzed and almost died? No response. While she was alluding to a mental issue. I know it's NOT mental and we left.
Now I am not going to act as if I am not concerned about Gracelyn. I worry about all of my kids but none like I have been about G. I worry daily about the effects of the toxin that invaded her little body. People at church specifically, I suppose because they prayed for her for so long, ask me often if I have seen any other affects in her in the last year. The toxin broke down the "connectors" between nerves and muscles making it impossible for G to do anything. I believe Gracelyn needed more speech therapy than what she received while in the hospital. She drank from a bottle after 3 weeks of nothing by mouth and 3 days later she was home. She was much too weak to suck so she was fed by syringe for several weeks following, much too long and her docs agree.
I spoke to our pediatrician Friday when Blaine went in for his 5 year well check. She agreed with me. She said it's like the saying, "if you don't use it, you lose it." Gracelyn can communicate and she understands when we tell her to do or not do something so the doctor reinforced that it's NOT mental. She needs therapy to build the muscles in order to talk. Gracelyn jabbers alot but it's not clear and she cannot enunciate most first syllables of words. She needs therapy and that is exactly what she will get. We go in for an evaluation around the middle of this month to begin the process.
Friday I also called the Botulism Prevention and Treatment Program in CA. I just love them, specifically Jessica. She is my go-to gal and she can always calm my fears and give me specifics as to my worries about Gracelyn. She also agreed and said that Gracelyn would benefit from speech therapy and also reminded me that she is child #4 so that very well may be a large part of it too.
Regardless, Gracelyn, with the stubbornness and mercy and grace God blessed her with, has tackled the challenges set before her and is just perfect. We thank God for her and know that she can overcome any challenge she may face.

New Vids of Miss G

Gracelyn began saying her name, actually her nickname, last week. It's so cute and she says it with a huge smile, probably because we clap and praise her when she does.

She's in her swimsuit just coming home from the splashpad and about to take a bath.

We got a new splashpad in town just in time for summer. The kids have been several times now and at first Gracie wasn't a huge fan. As we keep going, she gets more used to it and, as of today when we went, she loves it!! She was squealing and clapping just pulling up to it. After 30 minutes this morning all three brothers were sitting and asking to go home while little sister was playing and having a grand time!!

Britton is in it about halfway through in the red Crocs and then Blaine comes in at the end. I'm pretty sure Brandon was over already sitting.

clarification

Just over the last couple of weeks I have had a two moms ask me questions about serving honey to their little ones and in the course of the convo went on to say that they didn't want a botulism scare that I experienced with Gracelyn. And even one of Gracelyn's doctors told me that she had a mom argue with her when she reminded that no honey was to be given before the age of 2 and the doc said she almost offered my number to her. While I would be more than happy to talk to that mom about the risk of honey in babies under 2, honey is NOT, in any way linked to Gracelyn's botulism. So essentially I would simply be going off what I have read in books.
Gracelyn's botulism that she contracted is called "C Botulism." I know I have stated per the PICU doctor, that we would never know the exact cause of it. His best guess was that with 3 big bros they possibly came in from playing outside and didn't wash their hands and touched her hands or face.
C. botulinum is commonly found in soil. Clostridium botulinum is a soil bacterium.
Gracelyn was strictly breastfed when she became ill and even if I do eat honey, which I don't, botulism cannot be contracted through breastmilk.
My message before and especially since her illness is to wash hands. I reminded the family to wash hands prior and I still do, many many many many times a day. And not just for risk of botulism but many other little viruses and illnesses. As if I wasn't already a germphobe mom I certainly am now!

18 months!

I cannot believe Gracelyn is a year and a half old. It honestly doesn't seem possible. In so many ways now she is not a baby and that is really sad to me.

Gracelyn isn't saying much, mama (for me and her mimi. We are working with her on the long "e" sound,) dada, bye and more. She is signing quite a bit.

Gracie is a master fit thrower. The girl has talent. She knows what she wants and if you say no, she will let you know just how upset she is, even resorting to throwing herself down. Timeout is used quite often these days.

Miss G does love her baby dolls, specifically her "Pretty Princess." Mimi gave her Pretty Princess while she was in the hospital a year ago so PP has been with her through alot. When the surgery center called last week regarding her surgery and told us to bring her favorite toy, we knew Pretty Princess was a must-have. (She came with a crown that when you put it on her head it makes a cute little sound but G doesn't like the crown on the doll's head.)

Sleep is still a foreign concept but I am praying once she heals from this surgery that it will start happening. We both need it!

Gracelyn loves to dance, jump on her brothers for a "horsey ride"  or just jump on them for fun! She is fun girl who is smiling and laughing so much. We read a lot and a book almost always accompanies her in the car.

I told her to smile and this was the result

Just looking at Gracelyn you would never know how sick she was. She has come so far and it's not without prayers, amazing doctors and of course our most gracious

17 months!!

With the huge milestone of 1 year since G's botulism diagnosis only 5 days before she turned 17 months old, this month was very emotional and bittersweet for me. I watched her so much, from the way she walked, sat, "talked", ate, smiled, everything about her. She was like a newborn in many ways a year ago and to see her now, running and laughing, lifting her arms and legs, it's amazing!

she's 17 months old here, via iPhone.

the SD card hadn't been located yet

Gracelyn is doing so much these days! So much of it so cute (or we think so anyway!)

She claps often. When I open her bedroom door to get her out of her crib, after I sing her a song, read her a book, turn on a toy, give her food.
In the morning when I ask how she slept, she says "dood" (good) She picked that up from her brothers.

Her appetite is decreasing. She eats about half of what she used to, which still may be alot for others.
She's finally decided that she likes to have her teeth brushed. We are very thankful because the battle just was not pretty.
Gracelyn is battling her 11th ear infection since last Spring. We meet with an ENT a week from Friday to discuss tubes.

Gracie is so girly. If her hands get dirty she holds them out and will not do anything til we clean them off. She cares more about shoes than she does clothes. She picks out the shoes and I choose the outfit from there. teamwork already!

She can make all three big brother cry in record time. With Brandon she loves to destroy huge Lego creations and books that are left out and she hijacks toys of Blaine and Britton, which just devastates them but leaves her smiling.
And she has this look down very well...

The past year has taught us so much and brought us together like never before.